Should I leave my boyfriend who's on cocaine?

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  • (THIS IS FOR MY FRIEND)

    I've been with him for 3 months and he started off smoking weed and hs now moved onto coke. He's really shy when he's sober but he's great when he's smashed and you can't really have a proper convo with him when he's sober.
    But I really DO like him and I feel so comfortable around him and I've never had this with anyone else.
    he really makes me happy
    Should I break up with him???.


  • I would have to say DUMP HIM it wont be long before he starts stealing to feed his habit or worse.
    hope this helps.


  • he needs help,but believe me he will make you very unhappy,steer clear,


  • Yes. I dated guys who did weed, cigarettes and they drank liquor.


  • YYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYEEEEEEEEEEEEEEESSSSS... You really need to ask???????? This habit costs money..money YOU will end up paying out when he loses his job, friends, family!!!! DO IT NOW!


  • i think the best thing to do is talk to him about how you feel maybe he will understan if he dosen't understand and he still is on cocaine i think you need to move on with your life and don't forget to tell him why you broke up with him


  • UMM YOU'RE AN IDIOT FOR BEING WITH THIS JACKASS...BE REAL, THIS IS NOT FOR YOUR FRIEND..THE WAY YOU WORDED THE QUESTION IS TOO PERSONAL...IT'S YOU AND YOU'RE EMBARASSED YOU'RE WITH A ******* CRACKHEAD!

    BUT SARAH PALIN IS HOT!!


  • he doesnt love you he loves the coke break up now dont be stupid


  • yes I think your friend should break up with him because he taking coke and cocaine and weed if he continues taking it sooner or later he will dies and those drugs are bad for him


  • You should try and make him see that taking drugs is going to ruin his life and get him to stop. If he won't stop he will ruin your life too. Drugs and relationships don't go together. If he carries on taking drugs he will change. Don't let him persuade you that he has it under control and it won't hurt him because it will.


  • Yes, you need to break up with him. It isn't healthy that he does weed, and cocaine. Think about his health. He could partially hurt someone else. I think you need to break up with him. If he loves you, he'll stop. He shouldn't be doing that kind of stuff.


  • well if you really like him then tell him to stop because that stuff can hurt him in life so tell your friend that she should really talk to him if she really cared about her boyfriend


  • if you really really like him.
    then talk to him & try & make him come off of it?
    i did it with my boyfriend.
    but, its up to you?
    if he doesn't come off it.
    then, yes. dump him.

    xxx

    goodluck.x


  • I would and I'd tell him that it was because he was taking coke.


  • Hell yes if not what's the future going to be like??


  • Yes defiantly, if he is only "great" as you say when he is smashed then this is never going to work he is just going to get more and more dependent on coke and then he will not be able to get too his normal high in time and you will never like him because he will be depressed all the time and you won't have a good relationship.
    You need to give him an ultimatum you or the drugs...and follow through with whatever happens for your own sake...


  • Whats he going to move onto next, heroin? If you can't have fun, a proper conversation etc etc when he is sober, then you are both really sad people! Its like people say they can't have a good time unless they are drunk, how sad are they!!!!? I'd would have to say get out, he may try and get you on the drugs aswell, and I'm sure you wouldn't want to become a statistic!


  • why?
    just because he likes a bit of snow
    if you like him so much then why


  • what future do you see yourself having with a coke head who you only get on with when he is being false and of his face. you know the real answer that's why you have asked us our opinion.


  • Yes, you should definitely leave him. Even though you get along with him, you know in the end the drug addiction will take your life to places you wish you never went to. It is hard to break up with someone you like so much.

    It is a battle between your brain and your heart. In this case you have to let your brain win. Good luck.


  • Would you feel as comfortable hanging around the monsters and criminals supplying your BF with the coke he takes?
    Get out now while you still have the chance. Soon these monsters will be coming to your door demanding money and when there isn't any they will look to you to pay them in kind. Refuse to and you will experience the violence these monsters are capable of.


  • :'( its really so sad i understand how that be a disaster how can that happen to leave your boyfriend its so bad
    sorrrry i cant say that you should to leave him .
    but if you please try to make him better & leave that things


  • Yes.


  • Simple. Yes.


  • I don't think that he just started doing the coke. He just started doing it in front of you. I hate to say this but I think there will be more secrets that will unfold. I think that he's not able to function well when he is sober and this means that he's not really ready for a good relationship. He's got things he has to deal with first. He my never deal with them. So it's up to you to take care of yourself and find someone who is able to love you not just someone who wants to love you.


  • Even having to ask shows your lack of maturity. Of course you should break up with him. He's trash.


  • I know you may have feelings for him but if you stay with this guy hes going to start using more and once coke stops working hes going to move on and on to the bigger things until one day your living in a shack of an apartment cause you need to support his addiction and he doesnt have a job cause hes smashed all the time.


  • why would you want to date someone who cant function with out drugs. That is a really bad thing to be dependent on illegal drugs


  • yes


  • I would sweetheart! His addiction will only get worse and then he'll only care about the drug. He'll start asking you for money so he can get it. He has already got worse cause he went from weed to coke. I'd get away from him until he decides to stop. I heard some pretty bad stories of girls getting beaten up by there bf's that are are drugs . . . including coke! Be careful!! ♥


  • Does your friend really want to be with someone who can't have a conversation with her without being stoned? Honestly, get out now!







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